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Wednesday, November 19, 2014
Thursday, November 6, 2014
Closing Day :)
CLOSING DAY!
If your closing goes smoothly, this is the best day and one you won't forget! You get the keys to your new home! We were extremely blessed and had great sellers so that helped a lot! Sometimes the sellers or the buyers will have power of attorney to sign their documents (giving permission to someone else to sign your paperwork) and may not be there. If you are there with the sellers it can be awkward....crickets....or it can be super fun and a chance to talk to them about their home! Brenda also had gotten a list of utility companies they used previously for us to call and switch names and billing for to make the process smoother. The closer, buyers and sellers (or person designated by one party or another to sign), along with possibly the mortgage broker will be there. They go through a million pieces of paperwork and you sign, sign, sign, sign and oh, you sign! You have your funds sent there for them as well (your down payment).
After we finished, we got a great congratulations gift from both Brenda and our closer. Then we got to the home and the sellers had planted some new flowers for us in the outside pots, wrote us a super nice note, got us a couple of big robes, and had a bottle of champagne, and 2 wine glasses awaiting our arrival (I told you they were awesome!).
After that, move in and make it your own!!
OR, sit back, relax (most likely on your floor unless your furniture is there!), and look around at your brand new purchase!!
If your closing goes smoothly, this is the best day and one you won't forget! You get the keys to your new home! We were extremely blessed and had great sellers so that helped a lot! Sometimes the sellers or the buyers will have power of attorney to sign their documents (giving permission to someone else to sign your paperwork) and may not be there. If you are there with the sellers it can be awkward....crickets....or it can be super fun and a chance to talk to them about their home! Brenda also had gotten a list of utility companies they used previously for us to call and switch names and billing for to make the process smoother. The closer, buyers and sellers (or person designated by one party or another to sign), along with possibly the mortgage broker will be there. They go through a million pieces of paperwork and you sign, sign, sign, sign and oh, you sign! You have your funds sent there for them as well (your down payment).
After we finished, we got a great congratulations gift from both Brenda and our closer. Then we got to the home and the sellers had planted some new flowers for us in the outside pots, wrote us a super nice note, got us a couple of big robes, and had a bottle of champagne, and 2 wine glasses awaiting our arrival (I told you they were awesome!).
After that, move in and make it your own!!
OR, sit back, relax (most likely on your floor unless your furniture is there!), and look around at your brand new purchase!!
Wednesday, October 29, 2014
And then what happens....
Whoohooo
let’s move in! NOT! Now comes the appraisal and inspection process. Most lenders
require an inspection on the property. You should get this anyway! We had a
great inspector that walked us through the whole house and the ins and outs. He
checks the shingles outside and some siding and landscaping then went inside
and explained the furnace, water heater, water softener, sump pump, etc. I
probably looked like a little nerd carrying my notebook taking notes but I
wanted to learn! We went through the plumbing, electrical, foundation, and
everything! He made notes on every little thing that could be improved. After
he prepared his report, he sent it over with all the improvements. We went over
this with Brenda, and determined which ones were pressing. We for sure wanted
the window to be replaced, plumbing fixed, outlets to code, and furnace
checked. We submitted these requests to the home owners and they came back to
us with what they agreed to take on. Once you have an accepted purchase and
sale agreement, you'll take a copy to your mortgage lender. He or she will be
responsible for ordering the appraisal and will order the Title Policy, if this
has not already been done by your agent. This will happen after you have seen
the results of the home inspection and have indicated that you are prepared to
go forward with the purchase.
Your
appraisal is then done (without you there) and if he/she determines that the
agreed upon price is acceptable for the home’s value, you can move forward! Did you include an appraisal contingency? Do you have the cash to make up the difference in price values if the appraisal comes in lower than the offer? Those are things to think about. You work on setting a
closing date as well. Be sure to watch your spending – don’t go buy all these
new items for your home! Wait!! The underwriters on your loan see that as a red
flag!
You
also schedule a walk through before your closing. The walk through you do with
your realtor to be sure the home owner hasn’t decided to go pull out their
fireplace or something! It’s a final look around before you call the home,
yours!!!
Now,
closing day!!
Wednesday, October 22, 2014
FIGHT FOR IT!
Don’t expect them to accept your offer the first
time! They will come back most likely
with a counter offer. That doesn’t mean you can’t counter again! We went back
and forth 4 times! In between the third and fourth offers, we almost gave up.
Brenda even "made" or STRONGLY ENCOURAGED me go look at other homes during it so that I could see if
this was really the home I wanted and if I was willing to keep fighting! Heck
no to any of the rest of those homes!!! I found myself always comparing to the
home I wanted and I wouldn’t like any of the new ones as much as I liked that
one! My mind was stuck.
We
knew the items we wanted included with the home and it was quite the experience
going back and forth trying to get our precious washer and dryer included in
the home! Also, having them pay closing costs or at least part of them is VERY
helpful! With all the costs of buying a home, it is nice to feel like they are
going to pay for something for you!
I
was never so grateful to Brenda until after this experience. She calmed me
down, put her boxing gloves on for me, and dealt with all the behind the scenes
things I didn’t even want to know was going on! After battling for what felt like forever, the offer was
finally accepted!
Wednesday, October 15, 2014
35 Houses Later...
We are down to our 35th home (that is after
many days of looking of course, Brenda is SO patient though, she enjoyed every minute of it I am sure right?!?)…we were going to give up for the day but there was one we
thought we should probably just at least drive by since we had an appointment….and boy am
I glad we did!!! We LOVED it! It had everything minus a fireplace that I wanted
(and you better believe we bought a portable one shortly after moving in!).
Other than that, there are things looking back like wishing the entry was a bit
bigger that could be changed, but I LOVED the rest and so did my husband! We
agreed! No one I don’t think will ever be 100% satisfied with their home,
whether they are building it or purchasing a model or buying pre-owned, but if
the shoes fits your family's feet, some things can be looked past!
So
we found it….now what? Hit your head on the wall and realize you are going to
not be as rich as you were before. NO! Sit down, go over your budget. Go over
how much YOU feel comfortable paying each month. Can you afford the payment
after EVERY expense you have already and still save and have money for fun things too? Don’t rely on making more
later….that is not going to help you now!
So
the house across the street is for sale too….let’s check it out….
We
walk in and immediately I realize nothing is going to compete with the house we
just saw! I WANT that! We sit in the car as I stare starry eyed at this home. I
want it and I want it now! There was another appointment after us….I told my
now husband to stand out front and act like a crazy neighbor so the people
don’t want it ha….he didn’t but I thought it was a good idea! No?!?!
So
we found it….now what? Hit your head on the wall and realize you are going to
not be as rich as you were before. NO! Sit down, go over your budget. Go over
how much YOU feel comfortable paying each month. Can you afford the payment
after EVERY expense you have already and still save and have money for fun things too? Don’t rely on making more
later….that is not going to help you now!
Talk
to your realtor, Brenda! What is an okay offer based on comps? What can we ask
to include with it? Go over every detail…this might be YOUR new home!
So
we did that…we sat down and went over EVERYTHING! We talked with Brenda, came up with our
offer, and boom we got the house…NOT! I wish it was that easy!
So
we fight for it…
Wednesday, October 8, 2014
What Type Of Sale Is It???!!!???
Ever
heard of a short sale? Yea….they aren’t short! Whoever came up with the name of
that was obviously trying to be funny. It is a LONG process but can be well worth it
if you have the patience! A short sale occurs when a particular property is
sold at a lower price than the mortgage due to the bank. The bank then accepts
the “short” payoff – taking a loss on the loan.
If you don’t even want to consider a short sale or foreclosure or
auction property, let Brenda know that upfront…she won’t show you any! I wasn’t
sure initially if it mattered to me so I went to see a couple. The particular
ones I saw were NOT something I wanted to live in! Walking in to foreign music
and incense burning along with grease infested ovens, writing all over the
walls, wiring out everywhere, need I keep going….is not something I wanted to
stay in! NO way! I did see one really great one too don’t get me wrong, but
decided the timing just wouldn’t work for us. Be careful with these though as they
are as – is. Also, just because the seller accepts your offer doesn’t mean the
bank will! When the homeowner is no longer able to make their payments and has
quit making payments, then the lender starts the foreclosure process in which time the people living in the home are forced out but still have the opportunity to buy the property back. Once the property is REO (Real Estate Owned), the bank owns the property as collateral for the loan. Usually the short sale
process takes longer than the REO since the banks have to agree to take
less money than they are owed, but they each have their own set of rules. And be careful to know where the foreclosure process is when you go to purchase it! Auction properties have their own set of rules as well. Some have reserves which force you to start the bid at a higher price than you anticipate. There are many pieces to the short
sale and foreclosure puzzles! Brenda of course is the expert for that –
literally a certified expert! This isn't something you need to be a pro on but be sure to work with an agent that is!
Also, remember when I said don’t settle? Yea, don’t! It’s
easy to get wrapped up in it all and decide on one we think is “the one” right
away but take your time to think about it! One that we saw the first day I
thought I “loved” – Nate went to see it the next day and laughed at me. He
reminded me that it had cedar shingles and siding (and I am not a bird fan…what
animal do you think is drawn to that material!) with a swamp in the backyard
full of mosquitos in the summer – think about the seasons and what they will
bring to you! For example, the swamp, a steep driveway in the winter, etc. Some things though can be fixed with a handyman or a great construction company - of which I know of one!!
Wednesday, October 1, 2014
And Let's Walk Into The Home...
Ok
let’s talk....me to you….no one wants to walk into a home and feel out of place,
smell the last persons cooking, or feel like you walked into a sweaty locker
room right? So think about how you feel walking in? Walk in, take a breath,
take a quick look around (What are your first impressions?? Often they are the
ones that are lasting!), and start exploring. Enjoy this part! Walk around,
feel out the floor plan – what is your routine every day? Does it fit in this
home? Where do you spend most of your time? Picture your family there with YOUR
things in it (not their custom made furniture or Ikea handiwork)….can you see
it? LOOK at each room and in each door and in each nook and cranny. Come on,
all of us are snoops at heart….here is your chance to snoop and it’s okay! When
staging a home the homeowners are told to take their personal photos out. Did
you ever think about why? Well it is MUCH harder for a buyer to picture their
own family in a home when you see the owner’s Great Grandma Louise and Uncle
Bob and Cousin Ralph on the wall. If they ignored that precious advice, ignore
the photos and don’t get caught up on who lives there now! SEE yourself there.
Sit down for a minute and picture what your life would be there!
What are the upgrades like in the home? Maybe you are handyman
or you know someone that is and can see the potential of an older home and what
you could make of it. I love my husband to pieces but there was no way he was
going to be able to whip out anything construction related so I knew I wanted
something already to my liking. I wish I knew Friemann Companies when I looked! They are awesome! Look what they did to the kitchen below! Call them for anything! They can do it! Look past the paint and wallpaper (EASY fix –
well maybe you have taken down wallpaper lately and disagree but it is
something you can fix at least!) What kinds of appliances are included? How old
are the appliances? Will they need to be replaced soon? (This will change your
budget!) Are the countertops updated (if not, is this going to bother you?)? Do
you have a washer and dryer/are the ones in the home included? How old is the
water heater and furnace? When you are looking into that, think about the
outside as well….when was the roof last shingled? Is the siding permanent or
something you will have to paint? All these things start adding up over time!!
Maybe it has an association – what are the fees and what does it cover?
Now, how do you access the great outdoors? Maybe you are the
type that wants to sit inside with your book all summer and that’s great! For
myself, however, the outside was a HUGE thing for me! I grew up with a large
ravine lot yard and didn’t want to be on top of my neighbors and wanted a yard
for myself and future children to be in. Is there even a yard? Is it a hill and
how will rain flow through it? Will you have your own pond out there after each
rain? Maybe you are looking for lake property….then be sure to know your
riparian rights, property lines on the beach, if you have a big beaver dam by
your deck, if a deck and/or lift is included, etc! Brenda can help with that!
You should always know your property lines no matter where you end of living
though! Maybe the sneaky neighbors started taking over your land…it pays to
know!
Now, for myself, we ended up purchasing a home with gazebos,
a privacy fence, a deck and hot tub. They all need to be stained at some point!
Lots of work but my husband knows how to do that (I give him credit for that!!!).
With a hot tub though becomes more responsibility….how/when/what chemicals do
you use? How often do you have to change the filters? How much is a pump? How
much is this going to cost extra in water each month? Same goes for a pool!
Think about the size of your yard as well…do you have the
right equipment needed to keep it up if you aren’t going to hire it out?? How
good of shape is the lawn in? These are all things Brenda will help you with!
Now….something we haven’t talked about….what kind of sale is
it?
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